Comments on: ‘Childish’ Behaviour http://www.bizwords.co.uk/businessskills/childish-behaviour/ Fri, 14 Oct 2011 22:17:07 +0000 hourly 1 By: Paul Glynn http://www.bizwords.co.uk/businessskills/childish-behaviour/comment-page-1/#comment-70 Paul Glynn Sun, 20 Jun 2010 18:43:53 +0000 http://www.bizwords.co.uk/?p=219#comment-70 Andy Just seen this. I find this very interesting. I'd be tempted to guess the customer service lady was trained in the Sandler process; it's firmly based in TA... Andy
Just seen this. I find this very interesting. I’d be tempted to guess the customer service lady was trained in the Sandler process; it’s firmly based in TA…

]]> By: Sam Deeks http://www.bizwords.co.uk/businessskills/childish-behaviour/comment-page-1/#comment-63 Sam Deeks Fri, 14 May 2010 18:17:59 +0000 http://www.bizwords.co.uk/?p=219#comment-63 Hi Andy, a useful and very honest story. For me it comes down to being aware of my emotions and understanding that I don't have to hook into someone else's anger or pain. Eckart Tolle says we have 'pain bodies' which try to lock into other peoples' pain bodies to feed. According to that, your pain body reacted when she cancelled course and tried to engage hers. She, on the other hand, didn't bring her pain body out to play with yours.. a decision which, in turn, supported you to gain consciousness about your actions. Now and then it happens to me, too. It could be something as simple as someone in a car being aggressive towards me - and out of the box comes the pain body, desperate to engage with the other person. Awareness of it dissolves it quicker next time it comes up at the same time as increasing your awareness of it which in turn... etc. It's great that you blogged about it - that's part of raising your awareness of it. Hi Andy, a useful and very honest story. For me it comes down to being aware of my emotions and understanding that I don’t have to hook into someone else’s anger or pain.

Eckart Tolle says we have ‘pain bodies’ which try to lock into other peoples’ pain bodies to feed. According to that, your pain body reacted when she cancelled course and tried to engage hers. She, on the other hand, didn’t bring her pain body out to play with yours.. a decision which, in turn, supported you to gain consciousness about your actions.

Now and then it happens to me, too. It could be something as simple as someone in a car being aggressive towards me – and out of the box comes the pain body, desperate to engage with the other person.

Awareness of it dissolves it quicker next time it comes up at the same time as increasing your awareness of it which in turn… etc.

It’s great that you blogged about it – that’s part of raising your awareness of it.

]]> By: IAN STARLING http://www.bizwords.co.uk/businessskills/childish-behaviour/comment-page-1/#comment-48 IAN STARLING Fri, 18 Dec 2009 18:59:07 +0000 http://www.bizwords.co.uk/?p=219#comment-48 Interesting reading. I have just read your blog to get some understanding of words; positioning; thoughts. It would neither of like to be managed by a "parent". Distancing oneself may be the right decision. But who knows..... Interesting reading. I have just read your blog to get some understanding of words; positioning; thoughts. It would neither of like to be managed by a “parent”. Distancing oneself may be the right decision. But who knows…..

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